Why do people feel it’s okay to cheat. I’m not talking about in an exam, or even on a monopoly game. I’m talking about on someone you love.
To be fair, it has never happened to me, and i’m glad it hasn’t. But on holiday one year I found out that a boy I had been, shall we say, ‘getting cosy with’… had a girlfriend and I was livid. I imagined myself being that girl, not having a clue what was going on, thinking nothing was wrong with her relationship, whilst her ‘boyfriend’ was off getting ‘cosy’ with me!
Obviously if I had know he had a girlfriend I would not have done anything with him or given him any sort of ‘loving attention’ as that is not what I am about.
Anyway, what I wanted to say was that I don’t understand why people do it. You either love someone or you don’t. So you either stay with them or you don’t. It’s as simple as that. Why make things complicated and cheat behind their back, you’re only going to get caught out. Someday that cheating will come back to bite you.
That is why I believe honesty is the best policy. If you can’t be honest with your partner about the fact that you don’t love them anymore, then more fool you for staying in a toxic relationship which is clearly going nowhere.
I’m not saying go and dump your other half because you’re having some issues, I’m saying just go about it the right way and don’t go and find your release with someone other than that person whilst you’re in a committed relationship. No one is forcing anyone to go and cheat because ‘thing’s got too hard’ or whatever bullshit story you tell yourself. Man (or woman) up and deal with your problems head on.
Okay rant over! Tell me what you think!
Excited to post again hopefully tomorrow!
Okay so I know I haven’t written on here in ages… like eight months ages! I’m not even going to give any excuses!
I was kinda busy with Uni but that’s no excuse. So I’m really hoping to write on here a lot more often now that I’ve started my second year at University.
I had such an anxious few months almost not making it through to my second year but excelling at a retake of an exam and luckily getting through it.
Anyway, I’m so excited for my next post!
lots of love,
Sadly on Sunday at around 15.00 my beloved dog suddenly passed away.
It was the saddest moment in my life so far. We had a relationship that only people with dogs will be able to understand. We were so close and I love him so much. He was so kind and loyal and he will be greatly missed. He was only 8 years old and was taken from us too early.
Apparently there was some type of clot in an artery that led to his heart. As I am away at University I was not there to say goodbye to him, but luckily I went to visit home 3 days before he passed which I am happy about as I got to spend time with him before hand.
My world is now saddened, I cry myself to sleep and part of my heart has been broken.
He was the happiest and kindest animal. He is the fire that lit and warmed my heart.
Heaven has gained it’s most precious furry angel. I miss and love him so much.
This devastating occurrence in my life made me realise how precious life is, and how much an animal can light up ones life.
Please cherish your lives, your families lives and those of you who have, your pets lives. I didn’t realise how much of an effect a dog could have on my life, but this boy brought so much happiness and laughter to my world. He was my brother.
RIP baby boy and sleep with the angels ❤
Wars, power, politics, religion, ethnicity…
Why do all these things cause so much hate?
Why can’t everyone just get along with each other?
As a world, we should be united. Together, we should stand.
Constant wars of countries wanting to win the battle of power and land.
Racism and discrimination towards people just for being a different colour or race.
The world can be a cruel, cruel place and I don’t like it.
Why can the wars not end? Why can the hatred towards others not be demolished?
If everyone were to just stop, and put their guns and pointed fingers down, the world would be a much happier place, I am sure of it.
I know it doesn’t work like that, but I wish it did. Oh how I wish it did.
Childhood is ruined.
Simply and clearly ruined. What has happened to childhood? It merely ceases to exist anymore. What happened to children running around, playing, grazing their knees. No, not anymore. Facebook, IPhones, video games and other new technologies prevent children from having a proper childhood.
Children would rather sit around and play their favorite game on the Xbox rather than play with their favorite friend outside.
What happened to the innocence of the past? It is gone. Children at the age of 11 or 12 have the same phones their parents have. Is this right? Acceptable?
What are your thoughts?
I’m scared for what will become of this world.
What will happen when our generation is old and grey? Will we be able to sit and grow old in retirement listening to sweet music and rocking backwards and forwards in our chair? Or will we still be stuck in the bubble of this new and ageing world? The technology of life, the world in which our current generation rules.
Grannies playing computer games, on Facebook, getting tattoos, listening to Jay Z or Miley Cyrus. Will this become of us?
Will we be able to move on? Or will we just be stuck in this current state of mind?
that is all for now.
Sorry I haven’t written in a while, and sorry my last post was just a bit depressing and weird.
When i’m in a mood, my thoughts completely change, it’s as if my subconscious takes over.
Anyway, my university has given my whole course 2 weeks off and so I will be able to post a lot more often..
Lots of love