Why do people feel it’s okay to cheat. I’m not talking about in an exam, or even on a monopoly game. I’m talking about on someone you love.
To be fair, it has never happened to me, and i’m glad it hasn’t. But on holiday one year I found out that a boy I had been, shall we say, ‘getting cosy with’… had a girlfriend and I was livid. I imagined myself being that girl, not having a clue what was going on, thinking nothing was wrong with her relationship, whilst her ‘boyfriend’ was off getting ‘cosy’ with me!
Obviously if I had know he had a girlfriend I would not have done anything with him or given him any sort of ‘loving attention’ as that is not what I am about.
Anyway, what I wanted to say was that I don’t understand why people do it. You either love someone or you don’t. So you either stay with them or you don’t. It’s as simple as that. Why make things complicated and cheat behind their back, you’re only going to get caught out. Someday that cheating will come back to bite you.
That is why I believe honesty is the best policy. If you can’t be honest with your partner about the fact that you don’t love them anymore, then more fool you for staying in a toxic relationship which is clearly going nowhere.
I’m not saying go and dump your other half because you’re having some issues, I’m saying just go about it the right way and don’t go and find your release with someone other than that person whilst you’re in a committed relationship. No one is forcing anyone to go and cheat because ‘thing’s got too hard’ or whatever bullshit story you tell yourself. Man (or woman) up and deal with your problems head on.
Okay rant over! Tell me what you think!
Excited to post again hopefully tomorrow!
Much love,
Kimi
xoxo